Ek kisaan beti se ek safal mahila udmi tak ka safar)

1. Mera Janam aur Bachpan – Kisaan Parivaar ki Beti

Mera janam 1996 mein Rajasthan ke Bikaner jile ke ek chhote se gaon Dulchasar mein hua. Main ek kisaan parivaar mein paida hui thi. Mera bachpan mitti ki khushboo aur kheton ki hariyali ke beech guzra, lekin saath hi kuch aise gham bhi the jo ek bachpan ko kabhi bhulaye nahi ja sakte.

Mujhe bachpan se hi papa ka pyaar naseeb nahi hua, kyunki main chhoti thi tabhi mere papa ka dehant ho gaya. Maa ke liye toh woh samay ek tufaan se kam nahi tha. Pati ke jaane ke baad maa ne mujhe aur mere chhote bhai ko sambhalne ke liye apna har ek armaan tyag diya.

Main apna bachpan nanihaal mein maa ke saath bitaya karti thi. Wahan maa aur mujhe har din naye sangharsh se guzarna padta. Kayi baar samaj ki baatein, kabhi rozi-roti ka sangharsh aur kabhi apne hi rishteydaaron ka berukhi bhara vyavhaar — har din ek nayi kasauti thi.

Par is sab ke beech meri maa ne kabhi himmat nahi haari. Unki aankhon mein hamesha ek jwala rehti thi — humein padhalikha kar kuch banane ki. Main maa ki is shakti ko dekhkar hi bade sapne dekhne lagi thi.

2. Shiksha Ka Safar – Shaadi ke Baad Bhi Siksha

Mere jeevan ka doosra padaav tha mera vivaah. Meri shaadi 2015 mein Nirmal ji se hui. Wo ek imandaar, mehnatkash aur parivaar-priye vyakti hain jo doodh dairy ka vyavsaay karte hain.

Shaadi ke baad kai ladkiyan apne sapno se door ho jaati hain, lekin mere liye shaadi ek naye safar ki shuruaat thi. Maine shaadi ke baad apni padhaai jaari rakhi aur agle chaar saal mein apni graduation poori ki.

2019 mein mere jeevan mein ek aur khushi aayi — mera pehla beta paida hua. Maa banne ka ehsaas ek anmol anubhav tha. Par uske baad jo hua, usne meri zindagi ko jhatka de diya.

3. Zindagi Ka Mod – Accident aur Bed Rest

2020 mein mere saath ek gahra accident hua. Is accident ke baad mujhe do saal tak bed rest par rehna pada. Waqt jaise ruk sa gaya tha. Main na chal sakti thi, na apna dhyan rakh sakti thi. Us dard ke samay mein sirf ek vyakti mere saath chattan ki tarah khada raha — mere pati.

Nirmal ji ne mujhe sirf sambhala nahi, balki mujhe phir se jeene ki himmat di. Unhone mera har pal dhyan rakha, mujhe emotionally aur mentally tayyar kiya ki main ek baar phir se zindagi ke maidan mein utar sakun. Unki wajah se hi main khud par bharosa rakh payi.

4. Safalta Ka Pehla Kadam – Dairy Business

2022 mein jab meri tabiyat kuch behtar hui, to maine apne pati ke dairy business mein haath batana shuru kiya. Humne milkar ek nayi shuruaat ki.

Lekin jaisa hota hai, naye kaam mein naye challenges hote hain. Hamne dairy business shuru hi kiya tha ki usi samay “Lumpy” bimari ka outbreak aa gaya, jisne hamari kai gayon ko prabhavit kiya. Us samay hume kaafi nuksaan hua, lekin humne hausla nahi haara. Maine socha — agar doodh bechne mein dikkat hai, to doodh ka upyog kar ke kuch aur banaya ja sakta hai.

5. Aasutosh Ghee – Ek Nayi Udaan

Isi soch ke saath humne apna “Ghee” ka business shuru kiya. February 2024 mein meri ek dost ne Ahmedabad se Rajasthan ka ghee online mangaaya. Tab mujhe ehsaas hua ki agar doosre log online sell kar sakte hain to main kyun nahi?

Main Mahadev ji ki bhakt hoon, isliye maine apne ghee ka naam rakha “Aasutosh Ghee” – jo ki Shiv ji ka ek roop hai. Is naam mein sirf bhakti nahi, ek vishwas tha ki Mahadev mere is kaam mein mera saath denge.

Aaj hamara ghee business all-India kaam kar raha hai. Har bottle mein sirf ghee nahi, meri tapasya, meri maa ke aansu, mere pati ka pyar aur meri mehnat ghuli hai.

6. Do Bachchon Ki Maa – Ghar aur Kaam ka Santulan

Mere do bachhe hain — ek 2019 mein aur doosra 2023 mein paida hua. In dono ke beech mein maine zindagi ke sabse bade mod dekhe. Ek taraf maa hone ki zimmedari thi, to doosri taraf ek udmi banne ka sapna.

Maine dono ko ek saath jeena seekha. Subah ghar ka kaam, bachchon ki dekhbhal, aur baaki samay mein business ka management. Kai baar thakan hoti thi, par jab bhi mushkil hoti, bachchon ki muskaan sab dukh mita deti.

7. Zindagi Ki Seekh – Viswas aur Mehnat

Mere safar ne mujhe ek baat sikhayi hai — jo vyakti har stithi mein aapka saath de, usi par bharosa rakho. Mere apnon ne mujhe dhokha diya, lekin main unhe maaf karke aage badhi. Yeh maafi mera bal ban gayi.

Maine sikha ki zindagi mein mushkilein sabko milti hain, lekin unka samna sirf kuch log hi karte hain. Main un kuch logon mein banna chahti thi. Aur aaj, main apne aap par garv kar sakti hoon ki maine woh kar dikhaya.

8. Aage Ka Sapna – Mahilaon ke Liye Roshni

Ab mera ek hi sapna hai — main YouTube ya social media ke madhyam se har gaav aur shehar ki housewife ko yeh batana chahti hoon ki ghar baithe bhi kuch kiya ja sakta hai. Unhe rozgar ke raste dikhana chahti hoon.

Mera  YOUTYUB KA channel  hoga “ jahan main apne jeevan ke anubhav, ghee business ka tarika, aur mahilaon ke liye ghar baithe kaam ke vikalp share karungi.

Main chahti hoon ki har maa, behen, beti — jo kabhi thak gayi ho ya haar gayi ho — meri kahani sun kar khud mein phir se vishwas jaga sake.

Yahi hai meri kahani. Ek chhoti si gaav ki ladki se lekar ek maa, patni aur udmi banne tak ka safar. Har kadam par girkar uthne ka hausla. Har musibat mein ek nayi seekh. Aur har safar mein ek nayi roshni.

Jai Mahadev!